At Boo, we believe in the power of personalities and psychology to transform the realm of dating. Today, we'd like to take you on a captivating journey, a tale that stands as a testament to Boo's vision – the remarkable love story of Ethan and Vixen.

Two years ago, Ethan and Vixen's paths crossed in Boo's universe. Vixen, a fiery ENTJ who cherishes her independence, and Ethan, a compassionate INFP family man, might not have seemed like an obvious match on regular dating sites. Yet, their story beautifully demonstrates how differences can harmonize, creating a symphony of love, laughter, and shared strength.

Their tale takes us on a roller-coaster ride of emotions, showcasing the beauty of human resilience and the healing power of love. It's a story enriched by their shared experiences – the birth of their son, Little Ronnie, and their collective journey navigating the ups and downs of life, love, and parenthood.

Vixen and Ethan recently spoke to Boo, to describe the path that led them from the screens of Boo to a shared home and a shared life. They hope that their extraordinary journey serves as a testament for other singles wondering whether Boo can help them find not just partners, but soulmates.

Discovering Boo: A Different Kind of Connection

In a world oversaturated with superficial swiping and instant judgments, Ethan and Vixen sought something with more substance. They were both weary of standard dating apps that offered little beyond passing flirtation, and found their way to Boo.

Ethan, a selfless soul dedicated to caring for his brother, wasn't looking for romance. With past attempts at dating resulting in only disappointment, he joined Boo in search of genuine friendships. He was a man deeply invested in his family and hobbies, particularly video games.

Vixen, a determined single mother, also approached online dating with skepticism. Fed up with insincerity, she joined Boo, seeking a community that echoed her interests and values. "I was there for fun, just posting in the community. I wasn't necessarily close-minded to something serious, but it wasn't my goal," she shared.

Their journeys intersected in Boo’s universe, where they were connecting with like-minded individuals. Neither of them predicted that their virtual interaction would set the stage for a life-changing encounter.

Unexpected Bonds: The Start of Something New

Vixen and Ethan's first connection on Boo was more serendipity than strategy. Ethan, a playful spirit, enjoyed making light-hearted posts, while Vixen, a well-followed user, engaged with the community's happenings. Their profiles couldn’t have been more different—Ethan’s was brief, while Vixen’s was detailed. But it was these unexpected contrasts that sparked their interest.

"I liked his beard, and the picture of him with his brother," Vixen explained. "It came off as very caregiving. His profile was sparse… It basically had three words: 'I'm that guy.' At first, I wasn't interested, but his beard caught my attention."

Vixen reflects that the personality matching aspect of Boo helped simplify the process of figuring out who someone is and whether you’ll get on with them. “I feel like you have a good chance of finding a genuine personality and not having to worry about compatibility as much right off the gate, because it shows you who is red, who is teal,” she explains.

Breaking with tradition, Vixen took the lead and hit up Ethan’s DMs. But initially, Ethan missed her message, as he was preoccupied with caring for his brother and recovering from Covid. "I kind of ignored her," he admitted. "Not because I didn't care, but I had given up on relationships. And then I saw that you were in North Dakota, and I thought, oh wow."

Put off by the distance, Ethan left Vixen on read. Life went on, with both of them following their own paths, blissfully unaware of what was brewing in the background. However, when one of Vixen's posts went viral, it jogged Ethan's memory. It reminded him of the spark that had been kindled. "I saw your other post and I thought, wait a second, I remember this girl! She messaged me. I like that! Let me talk to her."

Ethan and Vixen's dating phase was filled with deep connection, open vulnerability, and profound understanding. In those initial days and weeks, they built a bond that overcame distance and time. Their conversations led to revelations of shared childhood traumas. Trusting each other in a way they'd never done before, they confided secrets and pains. "We had similar childhood traumas that we were able to talk about," Ethan said. "I told her things I never told anyone else, even my brother... It was different, and I could feel it."

Their exchanges evolved into video calls and phone conversations stretching into the night. Despite the physical distance, with Ethan in Louisiana and Vixen in North Dakota, love emerged.

The magnetic attraction between them only grew stronger. A flight to meet Vixen in person marked more than just a meeting—it was a confirmation of their love, an affirmation of the deep bond they shared.

Vixen, emerging from an abusive relationship, had gained strength and clarity about what true love looked like. She found that in Ethan – his actions were a testament to the love and kindness she sought.

A whirlwind of changes followed. Within two weeks, Vixen made a bold decision to leave her home, and take her child Hayden, her cat, and her possessions on the 21-hour drive to join Ethan in Louisiana. Ethan, who was already sharing his home and life with his disabled brother, welcomed them with open arms. Their newly woven family unit was a testament to the acceptance and embrace of each other's "package deals" – a testament to the deep, all-encompassing love they had for one another.

They both understood the importance of family. Vixen had nothing holding her back from joining Ethan, whose whole family was in Louisiana. Upon moving in, Vixen stepped into the role of live-in caregiver for Ethan's brother. This experience brought its share of challenges, but they navigated them together. They built an authentic, nurturing relationship grounded in mutual respect, even as they shared their home with Ethan's family.

Vixen cherished her solitude but also appreciated the help with the boys that Ethan's family willingly offered. As a single mother, she had never had that kind of assistance with Hayden. Now, their home was a blend of cultures, challenges, and deep connections. They had taken their "baggage" and transformed it into a nurturing space for themselves and their family. Their love story continues to unfold, a testament to understanding, acceptance, and the power of choosing love over all else.

Ethan's Perception: His Anchor of Strength and Laughter

Ethan and Vixen's connection goes beyond surface-level similarities. Understanding Vixen's ENTJ personality type, defined by her strong and independent nature, Ethan found an ally, a partner, and a confidante. "She's a very strong-willed woman. And we're partners... it's a relationship, it's a partnership, “ Ethan conveyed. “I think our personalities just match really well, she brings out the best in me."

Vixen's strength was a source of solace, but it was her infectious humor that illuminated Ethan's life. "She has a way of making me laugh,” he shared. “She can just make me laugh like most people can't. The only one who's ever been able to make me laugh like she does, was my brother Ronnie before he passed away."

Vixen’s love and unwavering support brought Ethan respite from the grief he was navigating following his brother’s passing. This solace found a form in their son, Little Ronnie, named in honor of Ethan's late brother. Little Ronnie symbolized hope, resilience, and a rekindling of joy for the whole family.

Vixen's Reflection: A Love That Brings Balance and Assurance

Reflecting on her relationship, Vixen admires Ethan's family-oriented and self-sacrificial nature, traits that bring an enriching balance to their relationship. She also cherishes Ethan's loving nature, his care for her child, and his unwavering support. Ethan's consistent reassurance gives her the certainty that he is the partner she needs.

Vixen also addresses the aspect of understanding personality types. She recognizes their general value but emphasizes that they cannot fully capture an individual's complexity. Much like her stance on horoscopes, she believes that there are many variables that define a person.

For Vixen and Ethan, it is their ability to appreciate each other's differences and find harmony that truly defines their bond. This love story is a testament to their understanding and the depth of their connection, navigating life's intricacies and cherishing their unique love story.

Ups and Downs: Weathering the Storms Together

Ethan and Vixen's relationship story isn't one of constant sunshine and roses. They've navigated turbulent waters, including clashing conflict resolution styles, differing upbringing influences, and heartbreaking losses. Through all this, their commitment to one another has been their lifeline, their constant.

Ethan, a true Peacemaker, has always chosen to diffuse arguments, saying, "I've always been a non-confrontational type... I've always kind of tried to settle everything down." Vixen, on the contrary, is open to confrontation. “You definitely can’t have two hotheads together,” says Vixen,” and I think this kind of proves it.” As they grapple with their inherent reactions to conflict, they support one another. Ethan's calming nature soothes Vixen, and she reciprocates by providing steadiness when he feels shaken.

Recognizing that family experiences also play a significant role in their relationship, Vixen admits, “The different way we were raised is where we find we have to make compromises." Ethan hails from a two-parent household, valuing strong family connections. Vixen, however, who grew up with a single mother, values her independence and space. "I find almost having that close-knit of a community smothering,” she explains. These divergent backgrounds required compromise and understanding, balancing Ethan's family time with Vixen's need for solitude.

Their relationship has also been strained by the pain of loss. They had been overjoyed with the news they were expecting a baby, but a miscarriage took their unborn daughter, Coraline, away too soon. They supported each other through their mourning, and when they found out they were expecting again, they were struck by the uncanny coincidence that the due date was exactly a year after Coraline’s passing.

The grief of their daughter's loss was compounded when Ethan's brother, Ronnie, died just a few months into their new pregnancy. Yet, the birth of their son brought a glimmer of hope amidst their sorrow. They honored Coraline's spirit, and Ethan's late brother, by naming their son Ronnie. Vixen, reflecting on their journey, emphasizes the importance of enduring support for someone's grief.

Navigating parenthood also tested their unity. As a new father, Ethan faced challenges with their seven-year-old and infant. Despite disagreements on parenting, they are a united front, always learning and growing for their children's sake.

Their two-year journey, full of highs and lows, has forged a stronger bond between them. Disagreements are part of any relationship, but what matters is their resilience in the face of adversity, their commitment to their shared love, and their dedication to supporting each other.

Their Wisdom: Advice to Other Singles Seeking Love

Vixen and Ethan, enriched by their experiences, share their wisdom with people who may find themselves in similar situations.

Ethan encourages people to be open-minded and persistent in their search for love. Skeptical at first, he took a chance and found Vixen. He insists, "Don't give up – keep looking because they are out there."

Vixen advises women to take charge, not to be afraid of making the first move, and to embrace equality in relationships. She says, "I made this happen because, as the woman, I hit him up first." She warns women to re-evaluate their priorities when it comes to finding a partner, and the list of criteria such as height and salary of guys they’ll consider dating. “That’s not life, that’s not love,” she says.

They both underscore the effort needed to sustain love. “In my opinion, love – proper, real love, like ours – takes work every day,” says Ethan. “It’s not a fairy tale that you’re just going to ride off into the sunset and everything’s perfect. It takes hard work.”

They also highlight the potential for deep emotional connections in long-distance relationships. Vixen believes that these connections can be more meaningful than traditional in-person dating, while Ethan asserts, "If you think that this is truly it, then honestly distance shouldn't matter. Don't let that affect your thoughts. Don’t do it, because you can really screw yourself out of something." Their love story, bridging a 1500-mile divide, is testament to the fact that love will find a way against the odds.

Final Thoughts From Boo

Ethan and Vixen's love story, born from a playful message on Boo and nurtured through challenges and triumphs, is a heartwarming tale of resilience, patience, and unconditional love. While Boo’s algorithm highlights INFP - ENTJ compatibility as one of the strongest pairings, personality matching also depends on the two people approaching their relationship with open minds and open hearts. Despite the challenges Vixen and Ethan faced, from navigating distance and difference in upbringing, to dealing with painful losses and the complexities of parenting, their unwavering commitment to one another has not only helped them to navigate these obstacles but has allowed their bond to deepen.

The depth of their connection is evident in the way they speak about each other and the lessons they've learned throughout their relationship. Their perspectives reflect their values—unconditional love, mutual respect, compromise, and the understanding that relationships require constant effort and growth. Their story highlights the beauty of a shared journey, underlining that the strength of a relationship lies not in its perfection but in its ability to weather the ups and downs of life together, to bring out the best in each other, and to provide a solid foundation for their young family.

Whether you’re navigating your own relationship journey, looking for a genuine connection here on Boo, or, like Ethan two years ago, resigning yourself to the single life, this love story offers insights into what can happen when two souls find their compatible match in each other.

Curious about other love stories? You can check out these interviews as well! INFJ - ISTP Love Story // ENFP - INFJ Love Story // INFP - ISFP Love Story // ESFJ - ESFJ Love Story // ENFJ - INFP Love Story // ENFJ - ENTJ Love Story // ENTP - INFJ Love Story // ISFJ - INFP Love Story // ENFJ - ISTJ Love Story